So I've been getting more SD's contacting me, except I want to get to know them more and see if they suit me. One of them gave me their number in the first message and when I replied back via messaging, he refuses to talk anymore unless it is through talk/text on the phone. But I don't feel comfortable giving out my number that quickly without getting to know him before. So I never replied back yet. The other is how he wants to treat me to go to NYC for a weekend, but we never even got to know each other.
Is this normal? I thought communication and boundaries are set then it is furthered into meeting them or contacting them privately via phone. I just want to play it safe, but since I've never done this before, I don't know if this is common.
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These guys love to throw the idea of gifts and vacations at us... makes them look better.
ReplyDeleteAs for the phone issue, just block your number by dialing *67 (star 67) before his number. Tell him you're not comfortable giving that info yet, but that you hope he understands.
Thanks for letting me know, yeah I thought it was pretty fishy and direct.
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